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Do girls come during sex?
Some women can orgasm during sex, but they don’t necessarily have an orgasm every time they have sex. Many women can’t reach orgasm through vaginal sex at all. Women experience orgasms in different ways, and they can feel different for an individual woman at different times. For example, a lot of women experience pleasure and orgasm through stimulating the clitoris rather than through vaginal penetration (penis-in-vagina sex).
There’s no way to “tell” if a woman’s had an orgasm — the only way to know for sure is to ask her. In general, communicating about sex — before, during, and after — helps both of you understand what the other one likes and doesn’t like, which can make sex better and strengthen your relationship.