howdo girls keep safe from sex if the boy says he is wereing a comdon but is not

You can start by making sure you and your partner talk about using condoms before you start hooking up. Tell him that you absolutely won’t have sex without a condom. It’s okay if you feel a little unsure about how to start this kind of conversation — here are some tips on how to talk about using condoms.

You can also check — both before and during sex, with your eyes and/or your hands — if your partner is wearing a condom. But having sex with someone who you think might be dishonest about condoms with you raises some serious red flags. Respecting your partner’s health is a really, really big deal. Anyone who would lie to you about using protection isn’t worth having sex with.